What I Learned As a Newborn Photography Client
If you’re new here, I have two kids. I’ve lived through two newborn photography sessions as a client. I experienced two different photographers for my two newborn sessions, with two very different styles and experiences.
Why two photographers, you ask. Well, because I learned that just because a photographer says they CAN photograph newborns doesn’t mean that they have the experience needed to deal with newborns. And I learned that hiring a photographer at a lower price point might mean regretting that decision later in life. As in, maybe I should have sprung for someone more expensive whose photography style meshed with mine more. As in, you get what you pay for. I can’t redo those photos. He’ll never be that little again, despite his belief that he’ll “grow down” when he gets old.
My second time around, I knew better about what to look for, and found a photographer whose work looked more like what I wanted to see in my house. She produced work that was gorgeous. And I learned that I needed ways for clients to communicate directly with me, the photographer, not an assistant or automated message, during the prep time before a session.
I learned that it’s pretty awkward to ask a client basic questions about themselves during a session. So, I insist on talking to each client before we agree to work together. We can connect a bit and make sure we want the same things, and you can know that I care about you and your family before I enter your home.
Other things I learned from my own newborn photography sessions:
Being on time (early) for a session helps settle new parent anxiety.
Snacks are important. Clean and dry snacks are very important.
Everyone will need an available change of clothes, not just the baby. (See above about clean and dry snacks.)
Babies don’t like to be cold. Pump up the thermostat a few degrees, and dress everyone else to accommodate the baby.
A longer session allows time for snack breaks, diaper change breaks, potty breaks, meltdown breaks, cuddle breaks.
Including a toddler in a newborn session is both a fun distraction and a challenge to problem solve. The fun distraction takes the awkward edge off parents. The challenge is keeping them entertained while the attention is on the new sibling, or when Mama is occupied.
Older siblings (specifically toddlers) require patience and flexibility.
The more patient and calm I can be, the more relaxed everyone else will be.
Did I mention toddlers = patience?
Pro tip: If you have a trusted helper (extended family member, babysitter, etc) whom your toddler adores and can come hang out for a bit during the session, that’s even better. They’ll get some extra attention while you’re busy in front of the camera, and then they can join you in a great mood for family and mama/older sibling photos.
I hope my experiences help you find the photographer that’s right for you for your newborn photos! If you want to see more of the newborns I’ve had the pleasure of working with, check out my newborn portfolio here.
